We go along our merry ways as who we have become, till we can’t really tell the difference between who we are and who we are pretending to be.
Who sets the standard for what is normal? sometimes in trying to be “normal” we remove ourselves form being who we really are, still life goes on and we have no choice but to ride with it or get left behind!!
When you publicly criticize someone, what you say MUST always be the unchangeable truth, if in your contemplation to criticize, you find any trace of spitefulness in your thoughts, it is better to remain silent.